Forget the egg drop soup and the chicken chow mein. The food at a Chinese wedding is carefully chosen, because every morsel has a meaning. Even the number of courses is significant. The Chinese culture is one of the oldest and most complex on the planet. It seems that everything they do, and the way they do it, has depth and meaning. With almost 5,000 years of recorded history, the Chinese have had quite a while to learn what symbolism works and what doesn't, especially when it comes to couples starting their lives together. For example, a Chinese wedding feast always consists of eight courses. And we, as westerners, ask why? I found the answer through the Chinese Historical and Cultural Project.
The eight courses don't include dessert, and the reason for that particular number of courses? In Chinese, the word "eight" sounds like "good luck." Like most wedding receptions, the Chinese reception begins with appetizers, but they're somewhat different from what we're used to, like "dragon-phoenix" plates, which are cold platters serving sliced meats, jellyfish and a variety of nuts shaped like dragons and phoenixes. Lobster and chicken feet are served, too. Lobster in Chinese is literally "dragon shrimp" and they call chicken feet "phoenix feet." In a marriage, the male role is represented by the dragon and the female role by the phoenix, and together they represent yin and yang—the balance in a new relationship.
Here are a few (but not all) traditional Chinese wedding foods and their symbolism:
Shark's Fin Soup is usually served after the appetizers. Because shark's fin is a very expensive delicacy, the soup indicates wealth.
Next guests are treated to an assortment of entrees. Roasted pork, in the form of roast suckling pig, is a symbol of virginity. In fact, the groom gives a whole roasted pork to the bride's family at the engagement party.
A fowl dish like pigeon, squab or quail is also included. It is said the pigeon has tender meat, symbolizing peace. Most often, two pigeons are served to wish the newlyweds peace in their new life. Guest might be offered quail to express the hosts' wish for a peaceful life for everyone. Even fried chicken wishes the couple a "good life," because in Chinese, "red chicken" sounds like "good life."
Peking Duck and Lobster are meaningful favorites, also. To signify completeness, the duck and lobster are served whole (head, legs, etc.) Their red color is significant, because in Chinese culture, red is the color of happiness. That's why Chinese wedding dresses are red.
Because "fish" sounds like "plentiful" in Chinese, fish is often served to wish the couple a life of abundance. Crustaceans like crab, are served whole, again to assure completeness.
A variety of vegetables is served with sea cucumber - a sign of selflessness - because sea cucumber in Chinese sounds like "good heart," and the hope is that this dish will encourage the couple to avoid conflict by embodying a good heart.
It's believed that desserts, like sweet red bean soup and sweet buns wish the couple a sweet life. To wish the newlyweds a hundred years of togetherness, the hot bean soup should have lotus seeds and bak hop (a bark-like vegetable.) Lotus paste in sweetened steamed bread symbolizes fertility.
You'll usually find tea, alcohol, and believe it or not, 7-Up at a Chinese wedding banquet. Tea is a sign of respect, alcohol celebrates the occasion, and in Chinese, 7-Up sounds like "seven happiness." Clearly, all the symbols are not ancient, but like "something old, something new, something borrowed and something blue," Chinese wedding symbols give the newly married couple a meaningful start in life.
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The eight courses don't include dessert, and the reason for that particular number of courses? In Chinese, the word "eight" sounds like "good luck." Like most wedding receptions, the Chinese reception begins with appetizers, but they're somewhat different from what we're used to, like "dragon-phoenix" plates, which are cold platters serving sliced meats, jellyfish and a variety of nuts shaped like dragons and phoenixes. Lobster and chicken feet are served, too. Lobster in Chinese is literally "dragon shrimp" and they call chicken feet "phoenix feet." In a marriage, the male role is represented by the dragon and the female role by the phoenix, and together they represent yin and yang—the balance in a new relationship.
Here are a few (but not all) traditional Chinese wedding foods and their symbolism:
Shark's Fin Soup is usually served after the appetizers. Because shark's fin is a very expensive delicacy, the soup indicates wealth.
Next guests are treated to an assortment of entrees. Roasted pork, in the form of roast suckling pig, is a symbol of virginity. In fact, the groom gives a whole roasted pork to the bride's family at the engagement party.
A fowl dish like pigeon, squab or quail is also included. It is said the pigeon has tender meat, symbolizing peace. Most often, two pigeons are served to wish the newlyweds peace in their new life. Guest might be offered quail to express the hosts' wish for a peaceful life for everyone. Even fried chicken wishes the couple a "good life," because in Chinese, "red chicken" sounds like "good life."
Peking Duck and Lobster are meaningful favorites, also. To signify completeness, the duck and lobster are served whole (head, legs, etc.) Their red color is significant, because in Chinese culture, red is the color of happiness. That's why Chinese wedding dresses are red.
Because "fish" sounds like "plentiful" in Chinese, fish is often served to wish the couple a life of abundance. Crustaceans like crab, are served whole, again to assure completeness.
A variety of vegetables is served with sea cucumber - a sign of selflessness - because sea cucumber in Chinese sounds like "good heart," and the hope is that this dish will encourage the couple to avoid conflict by embodying a good heart.
It's believed that desserts, like sweet red bean soup and sweet buns wish the couple a sweet life. To wish the newlyweds a hundred years of togetherness, the hot bean soup should have lotus seeds and bak hop (a bark-like vegetable.) Lotus paste in sweetened steamed bread symbolizes fertility.
You'll usually find tea, alcohol, and believe it or not, 7-Up at a Chinese wedding banquet. Tea is a sign of respect, alcohol celebrates the occasion, and in Chinese, 7-Up sounds like "seven happiness." Clearly, all the symbols are not ancient, but like "something old, something new, something borrowed and something blue," Chinese wedding symbols give the newly married couple a meaningful start in life.
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Planning an Asian wedding? Our unique selection of favors are perfect for a Chinese wedding.
